Writing dating emails
Another guest post, this time from a good friend of mine – Sebastyne from Australia. For a girl, it means a flood of absolutely ridiculous emails, and this is where I come in.
She has a lot of experience when it comes to online dating, so take what she has to say seriously! To start with, I want to set straight a common misconception about online dating. The great thing about online dating is that it gives you a lot more options.
It may be true that your interests are 69, anal, ass, bikini babes, masturbating, porn, vaginas and the beach.And why do you, a 23-year-old, want to date someone who could technically be your father if 16 & Pregnant had existed in the 70s? And also realize that while relationships with large age differences can of course be happy and successful, there is usually something wrong with a person who refuses to engage romantically with anyone in their peer group, and instead seeks out a relationship that will involve serious differences in experience and power.Don’t be the guy who every girl is like, “There’s something wrong with that guy.” Yes, we’ve all been burned while dating, and we all have loooooong lists of things we don’t want in a partner.If you like low-key creative types, share what it is you make. Put forward the version of yourself that’s most attractive to the person you’re trying to see naked.Online dating is like advertising: Know your ideal audience and target them by positioning yourself to be as appealing as possible.