Dating someone not affectionate
So, flirt you shall -- followed by guilt and overall unhappiness with yourself and the person you’ve become.
Your romantic love story is turning into the premise for a soap opera.
It’s nice to have someone to talk to and support you when need be.
Yet, at the end of the day, you’re not going to be happy.
On the other hand, you understand all this time, energy and emotion is going to be invested in someone you already know isn’t going to pay off.
Likewise, you understand that by dating the wrong person, finding the right person is more difficult. You aren’t in love with the person you’re dating, but nevertheless you believe you ought to give this person the respect he or she deserves.
You may not even be certain as to why you don’t believe you two will spend your lives together. You’re already saying you’re interested in the possibility of being together forever, while you very well know that isn’t true. This is the biggest problem, as usually the only reason we keep someone around whom we know we won’t end up with, is for the sex. Serious relationship or not, spending a good portion of your time with another person, in a romantic fashion, is very different from being single -- and often we don’t expect it to hit us the way it does.
Love isn’t exactly logical and sometimes we don’t know why we feel the way we do. And once the sex goes south, there is basically nothing left holding you to the relationship. Instead of trying to figure out whose pants to get into next, spend some time being a decent human being. Even if you are happy things ended and maybe even happy with all that the relationship has taught you, the inevitable realization will dawn on you: you are once again alone.
The problem is you’re having a good time and don’t yet see a reason to jump ship.
Maybe it’s because I met someone I could have married when I was young that makes me so honest and blunt.
Maybe I don’t like wasting my time or anyone else’s time for that matter.
You don’t want to lose this person entirely, but you don’t want to make it too much of a regular thing either -- because you don’t like him or her enough.
You begin to take more and more time for yourself and friends, and less and less time with the person you’re seeing.
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There is a difference between love and sex and it is not necessary to have sex with someone to show them that you love or care about them.