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The grief over never becoming a mother is one I will never get over, like the grief over losing my own mother 23 years ago.
But like that kind of grief, with time, it's no longer constant or active. Thankfully, there's no biological time limit on that dream.
Do you really think that you can paint all women with that same brush?
It is sad to read that you feel there is nothing in it for you? Best, S Your reaction shows that in common with vast numbers of women, you are either clueless or in denial. You cannot see it so it's men's fault for not wanting you. Sorry but that is the awful truth and there are millions of men who feel the same way. It has enabled modern women to have their fancy pants career, to be aggressive, independent etc.
I believe in it so much that either it has to feel right or i would not pretend.. glad to know i m not alone Granted, I don't know you or your situation, however, being in New York City, I have lost count at the number of single women in their 30s, many of them friends of mine, who lamented being single and childless whilst continually passing over men and relationships for overly trivial matters (e.g., woman is 5'1 but will not date any man under 6'0; woman wants someone to spend a lot of time with her but won't date any man who doesn't have a prestigious job, which, by definition requires long work hours) Some people are truly just unlucky in love, but many more have a sense of entitlement that's blinded them to what's really important until it's much too late Men are truly fed up with being treated like crap when we volunteer to take on the role of protection, guidance and bread winner. Then impregnate yourself and pay the 0K to raise the child.
This article is less about not having a child and more about her personal feelings of rejection from the beau of her choice. Hi Mike, I was a little surprised to read your comment.
All together your comments are bias, non specific and non educating. You need serious help most of you crazy men out there I met a guy when i was 17 and he was 22.
He was a saint really, kind hearted, wanted to get married to me and have 4 or so kids.
I cheated on him before my 18th bday and he then found out and threw me out.
This type of grief, grief that is not accepted or that is silent, is referred to as disenfranchised grief. Not having my own, I felt like the world, in one big swoop, was moving forward and I was being held back. Being an aunt was (and will probably always be) my greatest joy.
It's the grief you don't feel allowed to mourn, because your loss isn't clear or understood. But losses that others don't recognize can be as powerful as the kind that is socially acceptable. When you're over 35 and heartbroken over a breakup with the guy who you hoped would be 'the one' or haven't had a good date in a while or watch your close friends go on to their second or third pregnancy, it's hard. Starting my own business, becoming an author and fulfilling my professional potential have been extraordinarily rewarding. Becoming a mother at this point would be a very happy surprise. That hard-won peace of mind can be interrupted by an unexpected package from a PR agency sending me a newborn baby onesie for promotion.
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We're labeled "career women" as if we graduated college, burned our bras and got jobs to exhibit some sort of feminist muscle. 39 and remaining single was creating more anxiety than anything else in my life.